When I went back to school to become a sonographer, I had a 45-mile one-way commute in rush hour traffic from my home in the suburbs to Koreatown near downtown LA. Even though I have lived in the surrounding Los Angeles area for the majority of my adult life, up until that point, I had rarely ventured too far into LA itself. There was the fact that I grew up in a small town where freeway driving didn't really exist coupled with an unfortunate incident that occurred pre-google maps where I found myself driving around Skid Row alone at night that gave me the feeling that city life might just not be my thing. I'm not sure what it would have taken for me to start to venture into this second largest US metropolis aside from sheer force of circumstance, but I am thankful I eventually did.
The daily drive was long and monotonous, but there is a point where the 101 veers south into Hollywood that always brought a sense of wonder and awe to my morning. I loved seeing the spires of Hogwarts on my left as I passed by Universal Studios, and the way the whole of LA seems to open up when the famous hotels and buildings surrounding Capitol Records come into view on the right. As I exited the freeway, the homeless encampments with tents and random objects were a sober reminder that some of those Hollywood dreams are really nightmares.
My favorite part of the drive, though, was just before my commute ended. At the corner of Western and Wilshire sits an imposing patina-hued building called The Wiltern. I would idle at the intersection waiting for the left turn signal and read the regularly updated marquee. Usually it boasted of upcoming headliners (not capturing photographic evidence of the most fabulously named band The Front Bottoms remains a great regret of my life), less often it bore tributes to recently deceased musicians (RIP Tom Petty). I felt somehow closer to the heartbeat of this musically driven city just by falling under the shadow of the Wiltern and I resolved to see a live show before I no longer found myself so frequently beneath it.

Hozier happened to be headlining in October of 2018. I've always been a bit of a sucker for tall, dark-haired, slightly odd looking dudes. Throw in his genious song-writing and Irish accent and there was pretty much no way I wasn't going to be a fan. His self-titled album is the resonant soundtrack for a great love and a great loss of my life.
The Wiltern is an intimate venue with standing room only. The earlier you arrive, the more likely you are to get a decent spot inside. As such, it wasn't uncommon for lines to stretch down the city block hours before the doors opened. A little known secret is that it offers a VIP lounge that, for the low low price of forty bucks, allows you enter the venue early and pass the time sipping adult beverages on vintage pleather couches.
My friend and I practically threw our money at the bouncer when we quickly realized that waiting in line was decidedly more appealing for 20-somethings with energy to spare than two 30-something single, working moms. An added bonus was early priority entrance into the general seating section. Within an hour, we found ourselves happily buzzed under the dimming lights in argueably the best "seats" the Wiltern had to offer. The show itself was everything I hoped it to be. I sang every line of
From Eden and
Cherry Wine so loudly my voiced scratched for days. If that had been the end of the night, it would have been perfection in and of itself.
When the concert ended, however, we decided to try to beat the crowd by back-tracking through the VIP lounge where we pre-gamed it earlier. That decision turned out to be quintessential icing on the cake when we turned the corned and found ourselves practically bumping into Hozier himself...all 6 feet, 6 inches of him! He was incredibly gracious, willingly taking not just one, but two photos with me after the first turned out to be less flattering than my vanity would like to allow.
In the end, it was a night of multiple unexpected joys that I will carry with me forever. A few days later, I was unexpectedly thrilled once again, when Hozier posted a picture of
me on his official page! Okay, maybe it wasn't
just me, and maybe even if you
could see me, I
might be holding a camera over my face, but let's not muddle the magic with such unimportant details.